Denise and I were talking on the phone recently, discussing something bloggy, or maybe something personal – I can’t quite recall – but I do remember how the discussion unfolded.
We were discussing a particular situation and both of our responses were so very different than they would have been a couple of years ago. As in better different. Calmer, more reasonable, less reactive.
Denise asked jokingly, “Who are we?”
And I responded, quite seriously, “We are people who have come a long way.”
We have come a long way. We have grown. We have changed. We are better versions of ourselves. We are more open, more honest, more authentic, while at the same time being calmer, stronger, and more able to take on the troubles we may face and embrace the joys that life brings.
Why is that?
Because we want to change and grow. We want to become better, stronger, more authentic people. We want to be true to ourselves, and in turn, we will become more true to others. We are willing to be uncomfortable and shed our skin and grow into our new-found selves.
We are growing into awesome, more and more every day.
How about you? Are you willing to dispense with the old and change and grow into a more authentic you? Maybe you’ve already changed a bunch and come a long way? We’d love to hear your story in the comments.
Chrissy says
An evolution from an oh so subtle (or not) revolution.
Well played. Well learned. Well lived.
Positive changes from making the choice, or perhaps life making the choice for us, to punch anxiety and fear in the face. To grow into your own, whether thru blogging or letting your guard down, so that there is room for others who can support us in some way, is both a daily challenge and a victory worth celebrating. No more being bullied by expectations of others. Instead, knowing from within what works best. True to you, tho not always easy to do in face of so many daily demands.
In the words of Teddy Roosevelt — who never stopped himself from great adventures — I say, “Bully!” Hooray to the both of you.
And keep on keeping calm and carrying on. You wear chill well. Write on!
Andrea says
Thanks, Chrissy!